I should probably start by explaining the title for my blog. ‘Its what you wanted’ is something that I have got used to hearing and started when I was pregnant with my daughter. We had long and hard journey to become parents and it was 6 years before I conceived Abigail.
So if I decided to have a little moan about heartburn or backache then the (jokey) response from my lovely partner was, ‘its what you wanted’ and this has continued through 2 pregnancies and the early years of our shared parenthood. Any comments or moans about how hard it is are met with the response ‘its what you wanted’. And he is absolutely right it is what I wanted and I wouldn’t change it for the world!